• Are you ever afraid of your partner?
• Has your partner ever actually hurt or threatened to
  hurt you physically or someone you care about?
• Does your partner ever force you to engage in sexual
  activities that make you uncomfortable?
• Do you constantly worry about your partner's moods
  and change your behavior to deal with them?
• Does your partner try to control where you go,
  what you do and who you see?
• Does your partner constantly accuse you of having affairs?
• Have you stopped seeing family or friends to avoid your
  partner's jealousy or anger?
• Does your partner control your finances?
• Does he/she threaten to kill him/herself if you leave?
• Does your partner claim his/her temper is out of control due
  to alcohol, drugs or because he/she had an abusive childhood?

Talk with someone you trust: a friend, relative, neighbor, co-worker,
religious or spiritual advisor.

Tell your physician, nurse, psychiatrist or therapist about the abuse.

Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline [1-800-799-SAFE (7233)],
your state domestic, violence coalition, and/or a local domestic
violence agency.

Put together an "emergency kit" of things you would really need if you
had to leave suddenly, such as identification, medicine, keys, and money.

American Psychiatric Association. 2005.
"Let's Talk Facts About Domestic Violence."
http://healthyminds.org/factsheets/LTF-DomesticViolence.pdf